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Parents deserve this?

UROOJ FATIMA  

Okay so it was around 4:30 AM, I was scrolling facebook as usual , suddenly my eyes caught a post in which I saw a boy tortured his own mother beacuse of property. How can anyone do that with his mother I don’t know how many sufferings she suffered in order to bring him into the world and he ruined his own  world. Raising hand against his mother, I do not understand how Allah may disgrace him.

His children will do the same to him. We can’t imagine how our parents raised us, what suffering they endured, and when we became a sucessful person and got married we start abusing , arguing them. Do they make so many sacrifices to see this day?

We don’t even think that our parents are the people who starved themselves and  fed us well. They wore the same old clothes but brought us new ones and worried themseleves just to make us happy and what we are do? Where is this society going? Do they deserve this? And how can there be no punishment of Allah in this world?

From verses 4 and 5 in sura 33 (Al-Ahzab) in the Quran, Allah instructed adoptive parents to refer to their adoptive children by the names of their biological parents, if known:

‘nor has He made your adopted sons your sons. Such is (only) your (manner of) speech by your mouths. But Allah tells (you) the Truth, and He shows the (right) Way. Call them by (the names of) their fathers: that is juster in the sight of Allah. But if ye know not their father’s (names, call them) your Brothers in faith, or your maulas. But there is no blame on you if ye make a mistake therein: (what counts is) the intention of your hearts: and Allah is Oft-Returning, Most Merciful.’

After seeing this man arrested, I just feel relax and comfortable before all this I was in deep depression and thinking how can we do something to make that shitty man feel embarressed but no doubt ALLAH is the best revenge taker and he will always disgrace them who did these kind of acts.

Parental love is the main love that is genuinely sacrificial, unqualified and excusing. We never know the adoration for a parent till we become guardians ourselves. Guardians were the main ones committed to cherish you; from the remainder of the world you needed to procure it.

The first and foremost right of the parents is to be obeyed and respected by their children. A hadith records that Muhammad defined “the greatest of great sins” as polytheism and refusing to obey one’s parents.

The mother has the right to receive the best treatment than accorded to any other person, in addition the mother has the right of custody of the child in general circumstances, at least until she remarries.

Parenthood in Islamic bioethics, as stated earlier, is an attribute6 and an inherent quality7 in relation to the child. The parent is the person whom the child has an intrinsic and natural right to be reared and nurtured by. Furthermore, the parent also has an intrinsic and natural duty to rear and nurture the child.

Mother’s In Islam :

Moms in Islam are held in exceptionally high regard. How a Muslim should treat their folks, particularly the mother, is underlined in the Quran and Hadiths .Several refrains in the Quran stress the troubles that a mother experiences and the regard that ought to be concurred to her.

“We have charged man to be caring to his folks. His mom has conveyed him in travail and bore him in travail, and his incubation and weaning take thirty months. At the point when he grows up and arrives at forty years, he says,” My Lord! Move me to express appreciation for Your approval with which You have favored me and my folks, and that I may carry out honest things which may satisfy You, and contribute my relatives with uprightness. In fact I have gone to you in humility, and I am one of the Muslims”

PROPHET (S.A.W) VIEWS ABOUT THE WORTH OF MOTHERS IN ISLAM:

A man came to the Prophet and said, ‘O Messenger of God! Who among the people is the most worthy of my good companionship? The Prophet (PBUH) said: ‘Your mother.’ The man said, ‘Then who?’ The Prophet said: ‘Then your mother.’ The man further asked, ‘Then who?’ The Prophet repeated: ‘Then your mother.’ The man asked again, ‘Then who?’ The Prophet said: ‘Then your father’ .

The importance of the mother over the father is highlighted in this Hadith by repeating “your mother” three times and then saying “your father” once in response to the man’s question.

The author is a professional content writer and a debator who  speaks in the favour of youth and their rights and currently doing BSCS from Iqra University Karachi.

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