Desi Parenting is something that is deeply rooted in the heritage and culture of Pakistan. It shapes a child’s upbringing with tradition and family values. This sort of parenting has a strong focus on respect, discipline and family. Like everything it has pros and cons. On the positives, desi parenting imparts respect of elders and authority which instills values of discipline and obedience. Children are taught the importance of family bonds which help in forming a closely knit family dynamic. It also gives them a sense of community support and security.
Furthermore, it puts emphasis on academic achievement and education. Which drives children to do better in the academic space and work harder to contribute positively in society. But there are negative sides to this, the strict attitude of parents and strict culture norms may lead a child’s individuality and creativity into a downward spiral. The pressure to uphold to societies norms may harm the child’s own personal interests and passions. This effects the female gender more as the desi gender roles limit the opportunity in life for girls and create inequality in society.
Desi parenting may impart cultural values, discipline and family unity to children. The focus on education may result in children striving for excellence. But it hinder individuality, modernity and empowerment of children. So it is best to find a balance for the success of future generations of Pakistan.
The writer is a student of Department of Journalism at Punjab University, Lahore and she can be reached at: [email protected]